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I was at a conference in Abilene, TX when I heard James Bryan Smith say that we live in the Unshakeable Kingdom of God.  The Kingdom is never in trouble."  I just can't let that thought go.  This Sunday I will speak to the senior class 2012 of the Highland Church of Christ Youth Ministry (3D Ministry).  I will read Psalm 145:13"Your kingdom is an everlasting kingdom, and your dominion endures through all generations.  The Lord is trustworthy in all he promises and faithful in all he does."Then I will charge them to live a life that when it has ended, people will be able to say that they lived a life in which they never lost confidence in their God and always leaned on the Kingdom.We live in a time of great uncertainty and insecurity.  We know more about the world and its atrocities than ever before.  We can no longer be the Ostrich with our heads in the sand.  And while that can be very scary and disorienting, it can also be revitalizing as we assure ourselves that faith is the conviction of unseen things and God's promises are always YES!  We do not travel our life's journey in great wonderment or uncertain mystery.  We travel knowing that God is who he says he is and does what he says he will do.  Just like the taking of Jericho we march His path with great confidence that God has already overcome!  While there is mystery and wonder left in the kingdom for imaginative, awestruck, spiritual lovers we don't walk a path for what might be or what never could be, but what already was, is, and is to come.  We live in the unshakeable Kingdom of God and God's kingdom is never in trouble.

 
Genuine 05/05/2012
 
Is it really that hard to be a Christian? Yes and no. We think the world wants us to be perfect. I'm not sure Jesus even wants that! We think Jesus is always wanting us to be more than we already are. So we find ourselves caught in this world where we can never match up; never attain the goal.

We simply are living in a state of always striving and rarely living life at a thriving state. We begin each day with a whirlwind of expectations and spiritual exercises that is meant to project us into a satisfied life of finally living the fullest "Christian" life.

How unfortunate for us that we would put so much on ourselves. In fact, when we do we become the fake, hypocritical Christian that atheists love to bash and other Christians find at best; annoying.

That's the hard part. So how is being a Christian easy?

Christians need to live genuine, authentic, intentional lives. We become honest about what we wish to be. We are honest about our flaws and shortcomings. We make intentional moves to follow Christ without trying to be a Christ.

When I find someone is genuine, I am more likely to accept them and enjoy them as a person. Wouldn't it be easier to be a genuine person who believes in Christ and pursues a relationship with him than to ACT like what a "Christian" is suppose to act like?

The answer is YES!
 
iPhone Post 05/03/2012
 
Evidently I can now post my blogs from my IPhone. How awesome is that? I really love technology.
 
New Beginnings 03/22/2012
 
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I have been laying low on this site since taking my new job.  Some of that is the craziness of the transition and some of that is that I've been blogging for my church.  Click here if you want to see those posts.  This post below is one I just posted there and thought fit my personal blog as well.  Enjoy!

One of the best parts about spring is the renewal that it produces for all creation.  Flowers bloom, trees return to green, grass begins to grow once again.  Fresh rain covers the land.  People make new choices and do their “spring cleaning”.  Some people I know change careers and move to a new state.  In spring we enjoy the, “new” that is being offered by God.

Every ministry job that I have had before always started at the beginning of something.  The previous two (my full-time positions) began on January 1.  My internships either started at the beginning of a summer or the beginning of a school year.  It was easy to begin, because it was natural.

Knowing that we wanted to come to University Church, I knew that wouldn’t be able to start in January.  I also knew that waiting for the beginning of the summer would be way too long to wait.  So Leah and I decided that we would start April 1.  Let the jokes begin.  Yes it is April Fool’s Day.  However, it is also Palm Sunday.

Palm Sunday may not be a beginning of a calendar season, but it is a beginning of Christian calendar season.  Palm Sunday is the beginning of the last week of Lent.  It is the beginning of Jesus’ final week.  It is the beginning that is leading to another new beginning; Easter and the Resurrection.  So I’m pretty excited about my first sermon being on Palm Sunday, April 1.

I appreciate New Year’s resolutions.  I hardly ever make one, but I appreciate a new beginning and that others set out for a new beginning.  Palm Sunday becomes a new beginning’s resolution for Christians.  As we just practiced preparation, sacrifice, and slowness we now can make a focused, prayerful resolution to God of how we will begin anew in Him, His Son, and His Spirit.

Lent is our winter season where we die to ourselves.  Easter is our spring season where we celebrate newness.  Palm Sunday is setting the tone that all things will be made new, even if it means not yet.

I’m looking forward to our New Beginning!

 


 
 
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I made this announcement on January 8 of this year, but have yet to post anything about it on my blog.  Life since before the holidays has been a whirlwind, so I haven't posted much any way.  

Starting April 1, 2012 I will be the preaching minister for the University Church of Christ in Conway, AR.  Leah and I are very excited about this new path on our journey.  We began interviewing in mid-September and were asked to visit the area and do a formal interview in early December.  The search team, leadership, and us all felt that this was a great fit.  So on January 8 University and Highland both announced that I would be coming to be the preacher at University Church of Christ.

I have been involved in year-round youth ministry since February 1996.  That means I have been doing this gig for over 16 years.  I have been most recently at Highland Church of Christ in Abilene, TX since 2006.  I was born and have lived in Texas all my life.  Leah was born and raised in Texas as well.  Our two boys were born right here in Abilene.  In fact, we brought them home from the hospital to our current house.  Needless to say since we are changing careers, city, and state this will be quite a transition. 

In the next set of blogs I want to talk through transitions by walking through some of my own experience.

 
 
Below are the words that I spoke a year ago on Sunday at Leah's grandmother's funeral.  She was an amazing woman of God.  I Met Frances and Ralph, her husband, before I met Leah.  I never felt like an outsider with Memaw and I knew she loved me.  I loved her too and I miss her.

Celebrating Memaw

By:  Michael Matthew Mercer


On behalf of the family, I would like to extend a thank you and our gratefulness for you presence here today.  It is obvious by your attendance today and your constant connection with Frances that she was truly loved by many.  Of course she would all desire for us to not make a big fuss over her.  Please pray with me!

"Every string has an end. We are fearfully and wonderfully made but not made to last for ever."-MeeMaw Dec. 19, 1919-Jan. 25,2011.  

These are the words that Frances spoke this past fall, when she knew the inevitability of her death and departure from this world.  That one sentence does a pretty great job of describing her in a word…perspective.  I have never met someone who had such an eye and heart of God.  She saw things not through the lens of this world, but through the lens of God.  Perspective is my word for Frances and many of you if you had to pick one, might pick one of these:

Hardworking
Artistic
Crafty
Creative
Compassionate
Dedicated
Humorous
Fair
Honest
Cook
Seamstress
Hospitable
Independent
Open-minded
Resilient

There are many more to share.  It is probably easier to say what Frances couldn’t do or didn’t do rather than all the things she did in life.  She used her 91 years on this world to do the most good for the most people.  This was seen through her service to Central Church and then Southwest Central Church of Christ and also her work for Braes Interfaith Ministries and the little behind-the-scenes activities that blessed so many.  She also blessed her family by staying by their side and cheering them on with whatever life may have thrown at them.  And I can confidently say that Frances treated her in-laws as if they had always been in the family, she wasn’t just Leah’s memaw, she was mine as well.  No matter what Frances was a kind, selfless person.  You could never outgive Frances.  She wanted God’s best for everyone she met and always respected his leading, his will, his coincidences.  

I want to take a moment to share the voices of Kay, Susan, Ralph, and other family members who shared about their mom and Memaw.

Kay:

I always thought that cornbread dressing ( is there ANOTHER KIND?)  was supposed to be cut from a pan like a brownie.  The gravy was supposed to sit on  top, not be all mushed together, like Luby's dressing.

Nobody could make biscuits like my Mom.  They were small, about the size of a dollar and you could eat six or so pretty easily.   I tried to get the recipe once from her so I could learn, but there was no recipe, she just "knew how" and to this day, I have never been able to duplicate them.

She sewed all my dresses for my sister and I  on a treadle sewing machine.   I remember I liked to sit on the floor beside the sewing machine and watch the treadle run. I didn't have a "store-bought" dress until one Easter.  My Grandfather said he would buy Easter dresses every year for my sister and I so to JC Penny we went.  I thought I was in heaven, getting a store-bought dress.  I don't know if I ever appreciated all the work that went into making a dress, until I tried it one time.

She loved to go to Galveston, even just to watch the water.  But she didn't seem to mind getting sandy like I did.

When we drove from Houston to Long Beach each summer to see my Grandmother ( in an un-airconditioned car) she always wanted us to look out the window and see things-- the beautiful sky, the desert, the mountains. 

She never wanted us to be late anywhere or to put anybody out, ever.

She didn't drive and when we were growing up, we sometimes walked the twelve blocks to the bus stop and went to town.    We would go to the Downtown Library(maybe that's the only one there was then) and bring home books in the summer time.  The Little House on the Prairie series  was our favorite.  Regarding Mom's mode of transportation,  she learned to drive a car at age 63, but  riding the bus was what she preferred and she continued to do that until she was 89. 

She loved to watch fireworks on 4th of July, but all we were ever allowed to have was Sparklers.

She loved Christmas and a real Christmas tree.    In more recent times, she reluctantly accepted a small artificial one, but I know her heart wasn't in it.   She liked to make little bags of home-made Biscotti and give them to neighbors and friends, who looked forward to Memaw's biscotti.

No matter how big the problem, she usually would say at some point, " it'll all work out ok," and you know, I guess she was right.  

Herb:

 I did not really feel like the only son-in-law to Mrs. B., as I called her.  I felt more like a son because the love that flowed from her was a deep motherly love.  Even in the midst of her illness she expressed a genuine concern for me during some rather petty, in comparison, medical problems.  I was touched deeply about a month ago when I visited.  She held my hand and said, "I have been concerned for you".  She meant every word and her love touched me in my core.  Her love has touched many producing much fruit that will last a lifetime and beyond.

Susan:  

When one of Meemaw's grandaughters was a little girl, she remarked to her mother," Meemaw can take the littlest thing and make it so interesting." If you know Mom, you can relate to the truth of this statement.
 
Mom was an artsy craftsy person. Quite often friends, neighbors, and people from church would bring over their art projects that hadn't turned out quite like they were supposed to. She would say, "Oh, this is fine. It just needs a little touch up here and there", and then she would turn it into what it was supposed to look like.  I've thought of how God has at times done that with my life. When I have brought Him the broken pieces, He can turn it into something beautiful by the touch of His hand.
 
A couple of years ago, Mom told me about a dream she had and said she had this dream quite often. She would dream there were other people in her house, not in a bad way, but that her husband, parents, or sister were there in her house. In her dream she would think, "I've got to get out more towels and the big coffee pot."  Sometimes it would be so real to her that she would actually get up in the morning and start to get out the big coffee pot until she realized there was no one there but her.  I think on Tuesday she was able to get out the big coffee pot for all her family and friends that have already gone before her.

Ralph:  

She was a good mother and good wife
She was the daughter, wife, and mother of elders in the church
Combination of interested, engaged, and curious.  A genuine learner of her world, culture, family, and God.  She pursued interesting things from this life.  She would listen to books on tape when she lost eyesight, she never gave up on expanding her mind.  She not only found different things to be interested in, but also excel in them in every way.  The one thing that she couldn’t do was slow down or allow ailments of life to rob her of the experiences God had created for her.  

She was engaged deeply in the life of her church.  She was an excellent student of the Bible.  

She had a gift for colloquial idioms.  She was the queen of these…we called them memawisms








Mindy:  

She was not a typical or traditional mother-in-law.  She broke the mold by drawing me into the family as her own.  I’ve always admired her independence and perseverance following the death of her husband and best friend. She was so creative, she could make a legg’s pantyhose egg into a Christmas ornament.

Leah:  

My hero A woman of great stature, morals and principles.  She lived each day to the fullest. Through dark days and life’s challenges she persevered finding the silver lining. A go-getter. She was a champion of life and a champion of MY life. 

Analee:  

Just
Compassionate
Protector

MeeMaw is guided by goodness. She made everyone feel special, cared for, included and safe. She loved freely and unyielding. 




And it is the family and loved ones of Frances that I speak to next.  We are fortunate as followers of Jesus in that we know the end of this story.  And the end is, that this is not the end for Frances.  However, for us that are still here on this earth we will greatly miss her presence and all these wonderful things we have known and heard again today.  Grief is a gift from God.  He acknowledges the brokenness of this world and allows for pain and dark times.  And yet he desires for those who lose to take time to mourn for that loss.  

Even when Jesus knew he could bring the dead back to life, he too became overcome with emotion when he came upon those mourning and weeping for his dear friend Lazarus.  John 11:32-36

32 When Mary reached the place where Jesus was and saw him, she fell at his feet and said, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” 33 When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come along with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in spirit and troubled. 34 “Where have you laid him?” he asked.   “Come and see, Lord,” they replied. 35 Jesus wept. 36 Then the Jews said, “See how he loved him!”
Just like we learn from the author of Ecclesiastes there is a time for every season
Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

1 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens:
 2 a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, 
 3 a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build, 
 4 a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, 
 5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing, 
 6 a time to search and a time to give up, 
   a time to keep and a time to throw away, 
 7 a time to tear and a time to mend, 
   a time to be silent and a time to speak, 
 8 a time to love and a time to hate, 
   a time for war and a time for peace.

Kay and Herb, Susan, Ralph and Mindy, there are times now and times coming that will be difficult.  There could be anger, discouragement, or lack of understanding.  That’s okay.  God is big enough for your questions and he longs for you to share those with him.  Right now we are sad, not because of lack of assurance, but because we will miss our mom, memaw, and friend.  We will miss her biscotti.  We will miss her pulling out an article out her purse that she found amusing.  We will miss her quick whips under her breath.  We will miss her witty treatises.  We will miss her hugs, her love, and her gentle yet affirming reassurance.  We miss them today and as life continues we will miss them again.


Tears and pain are not necessarily a negative thing.  Mourning is called on by God in scripture.  Hurting is part of the brokenness of life.  God is calling out back to us during our cry for help and absorbing our personal pain, mixing it with his Holy intent and creating a longing for home that is eternal and true.

May we learn how to grieve better than any other religion and as my friend in Ministry said the other day May we as Christians die better than anyone else because of our expectation of the true Messiah and just King.

And in our grief we cry today, cry tomorrow, and we will cry again.  God is calling us to weep with those who weep and mourn with those who mourn.  Let our lament shout as loud as our praise, because God is God whether this life is great or whether this life is bleak.

And yet even when full of sorrow we are also full of hope.  


We do know the end of this story.  And not only do we know it, but like Frances we want to live for it.  Frances didn’t live to die, she lived to live forever.  She has seen that reward.  Her body that lies here today will rise again and be made perfect.  She will have a perfect stomach, perfect eyesight, and a perfect heart.  Jesus died on the cross that we might have life abundant here on earth and life forevermore with him in heaven.  Today Frances has seen both, life abundant on earth and now life forevermore in heaven.  And  we can confidently say:  I Corinthians 15:54-58

54 When the perishable has been clothed with the imperishable, and the mortal with immortality, then the saying that is written will come true: “Death has been swallowed up in victory.”
 55 “Where, O death, is your victory? 
   Where, O death, is your sting?”
 56 The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. 57 But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.
 58 Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.

Frances’ life was not in vain, it was for Christ she lived and now through Christ she will live again.

Isaiah 40:28-31

28 Do you not know? 
   Have you not heard? 
The LORD is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. 
He will not grow tired or weary, 
and his understanding no one can fathom. 
29 He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. 
30 Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; 
31 but those who hope in the LORD 
will renew their strength. 
They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.

"Every string has an end. We are fearfully and wonderfully made but not made to last for ever."-MeeMaw Dec. 19, 1919-Jan. 25,2011.  We are not physically made to last forever, but we are spiritually redeemed to define forever.  

Frances, Memaw Bivins will be remembered forever and now she has entered her reward where she has joined her husband Ralph, her parents, and other family to live forever in heaven.  And in our sorrow now and our coming to joy later we long to join them in this revelation song together in heaven:  “Holy, Holy, Holy is the Lord God Almighty, who was, and is, and is to come.”

 
 
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Today I read a phenomenal common day parable written by Donald Miller.  The parable is about the way we do church and really Christianity in most ways.  You can read it here, "You'll Be a Dentist."  It is a bit lengthy and he admits to that on his blog, but I couldn't stop reading and you shouldn't if you care about the church.

After reading this parable I was able to take some quiet time and process the implications of the story, agree with what I wanted to and disagree with the things that don't match my culture or experience.  In that processing time, though, I got to thinking about parables and why we hear so few, if any, common day parables.  There was a time during my undergrad at ACU that I heard Andre Resner, a preaching professor, work a common dat (for that day) parable.  It wasn't an illustration for his sermon, it was his sermon.  I was impressed then, like I was today.

I think today people aren't telling parables for a couple of reasons:

1.  We don't understand the reason of parables in the first place.  I would imagine that if we didn't have preachers/teachers exploring the many meanings of biblical parables we might be just as dumbfounded as the disciples were.

2.  We've lost observance of our world.  We have drowned ourselves in technology, people, work, material things, and entertainment that we can't stop to smell the roses or even watch the world as it goes by.

3.  We don't like to learn through pain.  Like acupuncture, when a parable hits the right spot it can draw pain.  Sometimes we cannot learn from parables because we are too busy being defensive about the very behavior that the parable is confronting.  However, sometimes in the pain there is a message that when seen through the sear of pain can bring us to a place we haven't been before, nor could have made it to without the pain.

There may be plenty of reasons why we are telling good parables.  In fact, these reasons may be awful.  But this is what I really want us to ponder.  Can we find a way in 2012 to draw on more common day parables?  Can we write parables into our lives that help us learn today?  Are there any authors out there who want to take on the challenge?

We need some good parables for today.

 
 
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Advent is not a season that I celebrated or even noticed 6 years ago.  I am thankful to Highland for really bringing me along on the meaning of advent.  In many ways I still feel very young in celebrating the idea of anticipation.

Jesus coming into the world as a baby has a lot to say about God.  I love the birth narratives of scripture that share such wonder, mystery, joy, and anticipation.  You get the feeling that something big is about to happen and that life is about to change in ways we never expected.  Then the baby is born and the family flees for its life.  Not the traditional story of how a King comes into the world and yet a perfect beginning for what would be a perfect savior for such an imperfect time and an imperfect world.

Jesus' return to the world should be even more than the birth since we know the story of how Jesus will indeed come back with every bit of glory.  And yet I feel that we have quit being excited, we understand more than we wonder, we have solved all the mysteries, we feel brokeness and lament every day, and simply we only anticipate our own ending rather than a homecoming.

That's why Christmas is important every year and the celebration of Advent.  Because when we celebrate advent we can lay down our mundane lostness and pick up once again wonder, mystery, joy, and  anticipation.  I do long for my end where I can meet Jesus, however, I more long for the return of Christ where we can all meet Jesus once again.  But until then, we wait not with the uncertainty or fear of a Doctor's office, but rather with the great excitement and elation of a 3 year old on Christmas morning.

Maranatha!

 
11.11.11 11/11/2011
 
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So just like the rest of the world, I now have a post about 11 11 11.  Not sure why this is so significant, but I guess this kind of thing won't happen every year.  Next year I will be blogging about 12 12 12.  I'm not a numerologist so this is all lost on me.  Nothing really interesting happened to me at 11:11 am so I will wait for 11:11pm to see how it goes.  If something crazy or exciting takes place, I'll let you know.  11.11.11  

 
 
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There was this one time when I went to visit Atlanta for a conference.  I was a country boy in a big city.  I had some free time, lots of free time, so I decided that I would go visit Mercer University outside of Atlanta.  I wanted to go to the bookstore and buy paraphernalia with my name (Mercer) on it...I was young and full of myself!  So I took the Marta, but had no idea how to really read their map system.  I got off the rail and thought I was pretty close so I began to walk.  After about an hour and as I entered a deteriorating community I began to think that my decision was not the best.  I found a gas station finally and asked for directions.  I was an incredible distance from the University and not enough time in the day to walk.  As I was standing at the counter considering my options:  walk back to Marta, call for cab, or...there really wasn't a third option until a man said he knew where it was and would give me a ride.  I swallowed my pride and fear and got in his car and went for a ride.  It was awkward for both of us, but as soon as he found out I was a Christian our conversation eased and we both felt more comfortable.  I made it there and bought enough merchandise with my name on it to make it worth it.

I didn't have a good plan.  I had planned out every other detail of that trip, but this was me being spontaneous.  I'm glad I did, because I have never had the chance to go back and visit yet.  I wish I had a better plan.  Sometimes we can have bad plans and God works despite them and sometimes we have wonderful plans and nothing works out.  Sometimes our plans are just puny!

In Numbers 13 the spies are sent to Canaan.  The land is great, everything that God has promised it should be.  Joshua and Caleb agree that the risk is worth the reward.  However, the other 10 can only focus on one aspect.  They look like grasshoppers in their own site next to the Nephilim and even to the Nephilim they look this way.  Nephilim were known from a specific area and were basically Giants.  

In order to take this land they would have to go up against men 10 times their size that could crush them easily.  So really you can defeat Pharaoh and the entire Egyptian empire.  You can walk on dry ground through the parted Red Sea.  You can watch food fall from the sky and water gush from rocks.  They had heard the stories of an entire world being flooded, languages changing, not to mention the unique way that a Hebrew found his way as a great commander within the Egyptian empire.  

But their plan is puny and they cannot see past a few giants.  They cannot see God and can't trust in his power.  And so they stir up the report and let it spread throughout all the Israelites and effectively killing the plan to enter the promised land all together.  They would wander around until they would all die except for Joshua and Caleb.  

They gave up milk and honey and great land due to a puny plan and a great lack of faith

C'MON MAN!!!